Online Privacy: The Ultimate Oxymoron

by Dan Hutson on May 18, 2010

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I hate to break this to you, but we’re living in the End Times of privacy as you once knew it. 2012 was on the horizon long before the advent of social media. When Don Peppers and Martha Rogers wrote about how technology would make it possible for Business to “personalize” the consumer experience, you knew that meant exchanging peeks into your soul for better deals on goods, right?

If you define yourself by what you do, what you buy, who you know, where you go and what you do when you get there, then you’re standing naked by the freeway and everyone’s snapping pics as they whiz by.

Technology affords you two choices: make yourself transparent and reap the benefits of personalization, or disconnect and live off the grid. I honestly don’t see the in-between. Your data may not all be accessible, but it’s all out there. And it’s only a matter of time before systems get better at mining it all.

Gina Trapani suggests that you can achieve some level of online privacy by (1) being “vigilant about what you publish online” and (2) “be willing to roll up your sleeves and dig into the settings area of the tools and services you use to do so.”

It’s a nice thought, but (1) you’re “publishing” something about yourself with every action you take online, and (2) have you looked at what’s involved in rolling up your sleeves even at one service? Do you honestly believe that more than a tiny fraction of the population has the intestinal fortitude to do the work necessary to cap the gusher of data that’s flowing into the gulf?

Last year I wrote about how the proliferation of social media options were overwhelming us with too much choice. What I failed to mention is how, every time we choose another tool, it’s another shovel to dump more data into the virtual maw.

Privacy as you know it is going the way of the buggy whip. Writers of science fiction have been telling you this for decades. You just weren’t paying attention.

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John Carraway June 23, 2010 at 5:51 am

I believe you can still maintain some privacy as an adult. It’s like you stated in the article, you just have to be vigilant about what you post. Kids don’t seem to have much of a choice though–even their participation on a sports team will get their name listed on the internet.

Mazarine June 22, 2010 at 9:46 am

Thanks for writing about privacy!

I do think that you cherry-picked Facebook as the most egregious of privacy-settings… And I agree, facebook is pretty awful. That’s why I don’t use it anymore.

But Twitter is a good business tool, if you know how to use it, and so is linkedin, as well. You don’t have to talk about every hard-boiled egg you ever ate. You can choose to share your high school, college, birthday, books you’re reading, etc. and it’s clearly laid out.

I do think that privacy is an issue, but if you don’t get on facebook, (and these days, it would be hard to be heard among all of the ads anyway) then your privacy risks are GREATLY reduced.

And there’s also a mystery factor which I’ve noticed, the less you put out about yourself, the more people want to know about you. So with everyone laying out their most intimate details, it’s nice to post about something completely different.

Mazarine

PS. If you’d like to continue the conversation, I’ve got a post called Shut Your Facebook which talks about why nonprofits don’t need to be on there. http://www.wildwomanfundraising.com/shut-facebook-3-tips-digital-detox/

Dan Hutson June 22, 2010 at 10:51 am

Thanks Mazarine. Your points are well taken, and I’m looking forward to reading your post re why nonprofits shouldn’t be on Facebook.

My biggest concern isn’t about all the personal sharing that goes on because yes, we each have control over that kind of information. I’m more concerned about all the data that’s being collected about me as I shop, do my banking, apply for various things, etc. I only have the assurance of large corporate entities that my data will be kept private. And I’m not feeling too favorably disposed toward corporate America (or Earth) these days.

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